Volunteering is often described as a way to help others, but those who have had the opportunity to volunteer know that it is an experience that enriches the giver the most. The story of Rukajja, a member of the Volunteer Club of the 'Bistri Izvor' Association, who spent three unforgettable days with children from the Home for Children without parental care Sarajevo on a winter retreat in the village of Ledići on Bjelašnica Mountain, is a testament to the power of love, empathy, and solidarity.
Thanks to the initiative of Foundation Second and the support of donors, the house in Ledići has become a place where children from the Home feel the warmth of togetherness, and volunteers are given the chance to share moments through activities, games, and bonding that also leave a profound impact on their hearts.
Rukajja, who experienced a whirlwind of emotions during the three days of volunteering, shared her reflections, which we present in full:
"Recently, I had the chance to spend three days with children from the Orphanage on the mountain. This experience was filled with both joy and sadness, leaving an indelible mark on my heart. The children were wonderful, open, and hungry for attention, but behind their smiles lay deep sorrow and an indescribable longing for a mother's love.
These children have everything they materially need—food, clothing, a roof over their heads. But what they lack is the most essential: the warmth of family, hugs filled with love, and attention that comes from the heart. In their eyes, I saw pain and emptiness, as if every smile they wore was battling to hide the stories of the wounds they have endured.
The three days we spent together were enough to show me how little can mean so much. Through creative workshops and shared activities, we uncovered their hidden talents, unique qualities, and hopes. There were moments when they amazed us with their skills, whether in drawing, creativity, writing talent... or simply their honesty. Their willingness to open up and share a piece of themselves was touching, as was their desire to get to know us, bond with us, and create a story that lasted throughout our time together.
Every evening, as I processed the day's impressions, I felt broken. Tears came to me naturally as I thought about how strong these little heroes are in facing lives that have denied them what they deserve. At the same time, I felt guilt—why am I, someone who has everything she needs, often ungrateful for what I have?
I was particularly moved by how strong their sense of community was among themselves. While it’s natural for children to occasionally argue or quarrel over trivial matters, at the end of the day, they are always there for one another. The older boys especially touched me—they care for the younger children as if they were the most precious beings. Their attention, gentleness, and protective attitude towards the younger ones showed me that, despite often lacking love themselves, they find the strength to give it to others. Their bond was a lesson in solidarity, selflessness, and humanity.
This experience changed me profoundly. It taught me to appreciate every moment with my family and friends, every smile and hug. It showed me the importance of being grateful for the love and support we have and sharing it with those who don’t. I began to see many things differently, realizing that we shouldn’t rush through life because everything meant for us will find us.
I believe everyone should experience something like this, especially those who take their blessings for granted. A direct encounter with these children reveals a reality often hidden behind the walls of homes—a reality where children don’t ask for toys or luxury, but just a bit of love and attention.
Parting from them at the end of the third day was incredibly emotional. Although it was a short time, we formed a special bond—a bond that showed me that love doesn’t require much, just honesty, time, and an open heart.
Volunteering with children from the Home is not just an act of giving; it’s an opportunity to learn about empathy, gratitude, and the strength of the human spirit. These children reminded us of how powerful love is—strong enough to overcome many challenges and hardships—and how much we all need it. Each of us has the ability to give a little, which can mean the world to someone."
Foundation Second expresses its deepest gratitude to Rukajja and the other young women from the "Bistri Izvor" Volunteer Club for their selfless dedication, love, and time given to these children. Their efforts demonstrate how volunteers can be beacons of hope for those who need it most.